Child Development & Technology
Social and Emotional Development
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Any young child raised with parents and carers able to respond with love, understanding, and clear common-sense guidance, has an excellent chance of learning how to relate to other people. At first the child discovers other people are fun to be with, that they will look after you, and make you happy. Later, the child learns others have rights and needs of their own, and that, by studying the feelings of these others, it’s possible to make them happy too. So begins the child’s pathway to being at ease with himself and with others, in all likelihood leading to the development of a confident and articulate adult who can be independent and yet also respect other people.
Dominant Research Theories
Amongst the large volume of early years research into social and emotional development, current practice is primarily informed by the work of three major practitioners:
Bowlby’s attachment theory proposes that the establishment of relationships with caregivers is a critical feature of child development which has a lifelong influence on social relationships. Defining attachment as a ‘lasting psychological connectedness between human beings’, Bowlby1 believed ‘the propensity to make strong emotional bonds to particular individuals (is) a basic component of human nature’ and identified four characteristic features of this phenomenon:
- Proximity Maintenance – the need to remain physically close to those the child is attached to.
- Safe Haven – seeking out the attachment figure(s) for comfort and security when fearful or threatened.
- Secure Base – the attachment figure(s) provide a safe base for exploring the immediate environment.
- Separation Distress – the typical anxiety which results from the absence of the attachment figure.
In support of his observations, Bowlby noted that a child able to rely on a primary carer was less fearful than those lacking such reassurance. He also asserted this confidence was the outcome of healthy development from the infant to the adolescent stage and had a lifelong effect. Moreover, Bowlby was sure this was a learned expectation: because a carer has been responsive, a carer will always be responsive.
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According to Bandura’s social learning theory2, children’s behaviours are influenced by observing others being rewarded (or disadvantaged) – both parents and peers – for behaving in a certain way, and then imitating the rewarded behaviours. He also believed older children begin to ‘self-regulate’: developing observed new behaviour via intrinsic reinforcement to conform to acquired internal standards – a sense of pride, satisfaction and personal achievement – and experiencing a sense of personal failure if they do not meet those standards.
Vygotsky3 considered the child to be an apprentice who learns higher order functions directly from social interaction with parents, carers, and peers, and argued that: ‘Any function in the child’s cultural development appears twice… First it appears on the social plane, and then on the psychological plane.’ Whilst both Piaget and Vygotsky describe children as active, hands-on learners, Piaget believed child development was universal, whilst Vygotsky maintained each culture provides different ‘tools of intellectual adaptation’. Thus, for example, some societies rely on note-taking to store information, whereas oral cultures value memorisation and rote learning – an idea which has implications for teachers in multicultural contexts. For Vygotsky, child learners had a ‘zone of proximal development’ representing all the skills and knowledge a child alone cannot presently understand, but is capable of learning through guided social interaction. This concept explains, for example, why a child appears to lack certain knowledge, yet demonstrates the expected competence with prompting, or often just in the presence of a teacher or other learners.
[More on Vygotsky’s theories: The Science of Childcare: Cognitive Development.]
Crisis Resolution: Erikson’s Psychosocial Theory
In an overarching work about the ego which adopted a developmental focus, the American psychologist and psychoanalyst Erik Erikson proposed a psychosocial theory. This attempted to classify social maturation as an eight-stage model of psychosocial development spanning infancy to adulthood. Erikson’s theory held that each developmental phase required the individual to resolve a conflict between ego development and social factors. According to Erikson4, everyone’s development will follow the same path, but each individual experiences varying (positive or negative) outcomes during each phase, and a child suffering negative setbacks will have to deal with unresolved crises in later life. (The teenage ‘identity crisis’, for example, is Erikson’s own phrase describing the ‘adolescent’ phase).
The first four stages relevant to early childhood are set out below:
- Infancy (0-1 year) – the infant develops trust or mistrust in itself and others; the attachment figure is central.
- Toddler (2-3 years) – the child develops autonomy or shame, becoming either more independent or developing shame and doubt; parents and significant carers are central.
- Pre-school (4-5 years) – the child shows initiative or guilt, and is on a quest to discover what sort of person he or she is; the family are central.
- Childhood (6-12 years) – the child is industrious or feels inferior, with an attitude proclaiming ‘I am what I learn’; in an expanding social world, home, school and friends are all important.
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Opportunities for Social and Emotional Development
In nursery and similar contexts it is true to say that every social interaction is a developmental opportunity. However, the reality is that children’s play – even, or perhaps especially, the free, unstructured type of play – usually provides the optimum chance for the reinforcement and extension of such vital life skills.
Here are four sources offering some further information related to children’s social and emotional development:
– PBS Parents5: Skills through sensory play; a general online resource with a social development section.
– Scholastic6: Social development 0-2 years; theory plus some suggested activities.
– Supporting Teaching and Learning in Schools7: detail about social/emotional development, plus excellent guidance on promotion and support.
– Social and Emotional Aspects of Development8: EYFS detailed guidance for practitioners.
Theory into Practice
Childcare professionals are, of course, aware that although theories inform practice they should never be interpreted as a set of instructions on how to do the job. It would be entirely wrong to suggest any psychological theory has the final answer to every question facing those with children in their care on a daily basis. Theory is of most use to professionals as a tool-kit to analyse care and learning situations, evaluate resources, and as a language to describe what is taking place. Simple discussions between colleagues about shared experiences are often the best means of unpicking the underlying theory related to any context. And whilst such exchanges can highlight the useful limits of a certain theory, they can also suggest productive new approaches too.
Consider how the above theories might explain (or fail to explain) the following:
Behind a Child’s Emotions
Mad: Things didn’t work out as I planned.
Sad: I’m feeling a loss of some kind.
Anger: I want to control something I can’t.
Scared: There’s something about this I don’t understand.
Embarrassed: I can see I didn’t meet the expectation.